Recently, I committed to go ‘all-in’ on three areas of my life.
- Becoming the best father & husband I can be.
- Becoming the strongest possible person I can be.
- Becoming the best food salesman in New York.
(I left room for my female co worker to be the best saleswoman.)
Anything that does not contribute to those three things, I am almost completely ignoring.
I no longer check my personal emails. I no longer organize a meetup group. I no longer mix work with family time.
In order to gain something, you have to give something up.
That’s the rule. There is no skirting it.