… then perhaps just keep your mouth closed about it.
Because if it’s ‘not really something worth mentioning’, but you do, then you’re telling me that I upset you, even if it was slight.
And, that’s OK – I want to know if I upset you. But I want you to tell me.
I don’t want you to ‘hint’ it to me.
I don’t want any unspoken tension between us, ever.